Lessons learned from hosting my first Thanksgiving: #1 Jalapenos that turn red become fire-hot and can mess up your stuffing. #2 If you buy a fresh turkey do not buy it too far in advance or you will have to stick it in freezer. #3 If you don't follow lesson 2 and stick it in freezer be sure it is defrosting quickly and LISTEN to your youngest son when he says the fridge is up too high or you will have to run out and buy a new turkey on Thanksgiving morning #4 If you do end up with a new turkey and then the day AFTER Thanksgiving end up with your first turkey FINALLY defrosting be sure to have another family event that could use that first turkey. And GET COOKING! Ucenter Dress silver colored items to wear of the evening